why is it that after every heart break we are still resilient enough to fall back in love again?? its a wonderful feeling to love again....but then we again are back at where we started off in the first place. growing up with a heavy diet of love stories and fairy tales (I'm still not weaned off them yet) i have always hoped for getting one myself. I'm sure lots of gals out there think that way or feel that....some even probably don't realise that they do want that...
but sometimes too much of hoping can be bad..you know, you kind of expect every guy you date to b the one and screw things up...or hope that the current one won't go like the last one did..so what can we do..we just can't give up hope..we just need to know when to leave the relationship..dust ourselves and move to greener pastures..
that doesn't happen either..its like once we are into someone, our perfectly functioning brains turn into an organ with aorta that pumps love throughout our body.
we just go on and on after a broken relationship...expecting that after being a veteran of heartbreaks the pain would go dull or you get used to it enough not to cry bucketfuls..actually the crying doesn't hurt...its how u look after that that kills me...more so the fact that he is not there to see how much it is affecting you...i think most gals cry just to make the guys miserable...its like u hurt them coz they hurt you..
i think humans took so much time to evolve because they never really learn..at least not gals who have given away their hearts...they need to be hit on the heads with a dozen double volumes of vogues to realise where to draw the line.
but never mind...we are made that way i guess..cheers to us for being so involved in someone that we can't see beyond that n once wen we do get over them, we don't remember much about them...
(p.s.- my post seems a bit disconnected since I'm going through a heartbreak right now..but i promise its gonna be alright once I'm over it).